If you’ve ever been told “just think positive,” “don’t dwell on it,” or “stop overthinking,” you’ll know it’s not that simple. Thoughts have a way of appearing in our minds whether we invite them or not. Some feel warm and encouraging. Others feel unsettling or intrusive—popping up unexpectedly, even when we’d rather not think about…
Every choice we make creates ripples. Some are small, barely noticeable. Others shift the course of our lives. And yet, when faced with a decision, it’s easy to get caught up in the immediate pressure: What’s the right answer? What if I get it wrong? For many of us who are quieter, decision-making can feel…
For many of us who identify as quiet, introverted, or sensitive, the idea of finding love or meaningful relationships can feel like an overwhelming challenge. You might look at your life and conclude that connection simply isn’t possible for you. Perhaps you’ve felt like no one has shown interest, or you’ve told yourself that you’re…
Have you ever found yourself paying attention only to the feedback that confirms what you already believe? Perhaps you think, “I’m not good at social situations,” and then notice only the moments that support that belief while dismissing the times you felt at ease in a group. This common mental shortcut is known as confirmation…
Life is full of moments when we face setbacks, disappointments, and failures. Whether it’s a failed project, a conflict in a relationship, or simply a day when things don’t seem to go right, these moments are inevitable. But how we respond to them can make all the difference in our journey towards growth and fulfilment….
In the realm of personal growth and deep, meaningful connection, the term “The Rumble” might evoke images of conflict or tension. But in the language of Brené Brown, it signifies something profoundly different—a space where we lean into discomfort, embrace vulnerability, and engage in courageous conversations. “The Rumble” is not about fighting but rather about…
As we’re accepting applications for our Socially Anxious to Quietly Confident programme (Yay!), we’ve been reflecting on the decision-making process -and what happens AFTER we’ve committed, so we can support our Quieteers when and how they need it. But it’s not only our Quieteers starting a new course -I’m going back to school too! Some…
If you’re at the beginning of your journey from social anxiety to quiet confidence, you might be wondering where do you start and struggling to put one foot in front of the other. We know it can feel overwhelming and there are a variety of puzzle pieces to collect along the way. So, to help…
If you’ve ever stood on a clifftop gazing out to the ocean, you’ll know that the wide open seascape can trigger some strong feelings within us, and about us too. You don’t have to be experiencing social anxiety to feel your sense of power and importance ebbing and flowing throughout your life. But for those…
So many of us feel socially anxious in life, fearing judgement of others and avoiding situations we feel afraid in. In fact, more than 1 in 10 of us experience social anxiety; it’s the third most common mental health challenge. Or it may not be that we’re so avoidant, but instead we feel so anxious…
The Quiet Connections Podcast has been nominated a Top UK Anxiety Podcast as well as a Top UK Self-Help Podcast by Best Startup this month, and it’s great to have that wonderful recognition for our social anxiety podcast! But of course, what makes the Quiet Connections Podcast so awesome is the amazing guests who join…
What if you knew that the way you see the world isn’t the same as reality? Training as an NLP Practitioner, one of the very first things I learned is that our thoughts aren’t reality. It turns out that we respond to our own internal representation of the world -a model we’ve created in our minds-…