How Quiet Connections began

Hello, I’m Hayley, the original Quieteer.

I am proud to be on a mission to change the world with and for quiet people. But it’s been a long journey to get here and be able to say that with confidence.

I have always been quiet. I was described as ‘painfully shy’ as a child – and that’s exactly how it felt. I used to feel so bad about who I was, battling with intense anxiety in social situations, throughout education, and in the workplace, doubting I had any value in society at all.

Well into my teens and twenties, I struggled, avoiding (and missing out on) so many opportunities…until, thanks to my supportive coaches and turning my focus to studying and more deeply understanding introversion and sensitivity, I began to realise that my quietness was actually a strength.

Through this, I learnt how to manage anxiety and how to work with my personality type, not against it. And, over time, I’ve naturally built more meaningful relationships with those around me and became more comfortable and confident in my own skin.

My passion for helping other quiet people to flourish and for advocating for more equal opportunities in society has been fuelled by connecting with many other people who also consider themselves introverted, sensitive or shy, who share their stories, passions and ideas for creating change. I believe that together we can do so much more, and our quiet community blossoms through these unions.

I’m so glad you’re here, fellow Quieteer. Together we can create a ripple effect of positive change for you, for us and for all of our wonderful quiet community.