Understanding the Difference Between Criticism, Complaints, and Honest Sharing

Understanding the Difference Between Criticism, Complaints, and Honest Sharing

There are moments in every relationship, friendship or community when something needs to be expressed. Something feels off, or heavy, or important. And for many of us who move quietly through the world, speaking into these moments can feel complicated. We want to be kind. We want to avoid hurting anyone. We care about the…

5 Skills That Help You Build Nurturing Relationships
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5 Skills That Help You Build Nurturing Relationships

We long for gentle relationships. To feel safe and seen with others, and to offer that same safety in return. Whether it’s a partner, a friend, or a colleague, we hope for connection that feels kind, consistent, and nourishing. But even when that desire is strong, we might still find ourselves showing up in a…

Rupture and Repair: Strengthening Relationships Through Connection

Rupture and Repair: Strengthening Relationships Through Connection

Relationships aren’t built on perfection—they are built on repair. No matter how close we are to someone, moments of disconnection happen. A misunderstanding, a sharp tone, a missed bid for connection—these small ruptures can make us feel distant or uncertain. But they don’t have to be the end of the story. In fact, how we…

Speaking Up with Care: Why How We Raise Concerns Matters

Speaking Up with Care: Why How We Raise Concerns Matters

There are times in life when something doesn’t feel right to us—when we notice an issue, feel uncomfortable about a situation, or disagree with the way things are being done. In those moments, it’s natural to want to speak up. Raising concerns is an important part of creating positive change, ensuring fairness, and maintaining our…

Caring Without Carrying: How to Balance Supporting Others and Protecting Your Well-being

Caring Without Carrying: How to Balance Supporting Others and Protecting Your Well-being

Do you often find yourself taking on other people’s challenges, emotions, or needs as if they were your own? Perhaps you feel deeply for others, wanting to ease their struggles, even if it means stretching yourself thin. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many of us who identify as caregivers or people-pleasers—particularly quiet individuals…

Breaking the Cycle of Defensiveness: Tools for Authentic Connection

Breaking the Cycle of Defensiveness: Tools for Authentic Connection

In our interactions with others, it’s natural to want to protect ourselves when we feel threatened or misunderstood, which often manifests as defensiveness -a reaction that can create barriers in communication and relationships. For those of us who are with quieter natures it might already make it difficult to express ourselves openly, and defensiveness can…

The Rising Strong Process: Navigating Life’s Challenges with Courage and Resilience

The Rising Strong Process: Navigating Life’s Challenges with Courage and Resilience

Life is full of moments when we face setbacks, disappointments, and failures. Whether it’s a failed project, a conflict in a relationship, or simply a day when things don’t seem to go right, these moments are inevitable. But how we respond to them can make all the difference in our journey towards growth and fulfilment….

The Impact of Unaddressed Issues in Relationships & Strengthening Connection

The Impact of Unaddressed Issues in Relationships & Strengthening Connection

In any relationship, communication is the lifeline that keeps the connection strong and healthy. Yet, there are times when one partner may be left feeling unheard or misunderstood because the other avoids having a necessary conversation or doesn’t grasp the depth of an issue. But, when something significant remains unresolved, it can have profound effects…

The Silent Treatment: Stonewalling, Influence, and Power in Relationships

The Silent Treatment: Stonewalling, Influence, and Power in Relationships

Silent treatment, also known as stonewalling, is a common behaviour in relationships where one partner withdraws from communication, refusing to engage or acknowledge the other. This can leave the affected partner feeling isolated, ignored, and powerless. To truly understand the dynamics of silent treatment, we must explore its relationship with influence and power in the…