Have you ever thought, “I want to make memories that matter,” but then found yourself staying in your comfort zone instead? We often hear phrases like “Life is short—make the most of it!” or “Say yes to new experiences!” But for those of us who are naturally quieter, more sensitive, or feel anxious in social…
As Galentines Day approaches, we have a lovely opportunity to celebrate the quiet strength of our friendships. This special day is more than just a celebration—it is a chance for us to nurture the bonds that support us in our everyday lives. Embracing the Day with Intention For many of us, quiet moments and gentle…
Kindness is often a defining trait for quiet individuals. We’re the deep listeners, the ones who offer thoughtful support, and the people who strive for fairness in all we do. Yet, many of us have found ourselves in situations where, despite acting with care and compassion, we’re misunderstood—or even viewed unfavourably. How can something so…
Have you ever wanted to reach out to someone but hesitated because you weren’t sure if they’d want to hear from you? Maybe you assumed they were too busy or already had enough friends. Perhaps you worried you’d be interrupting or imposing. So, instead of sending the message or making the call, you told yourself,…
When we’re faced with moments of tension or conflict, it can feel overwhelming—especially for us quieter folk. We might worry about upsetting someone or being misunderstood. But difficult conversations don’t always have to feel like a battle. With the right language, we can approach these moments with a sense of calm, curiosity, and connection. This…
In our daily interactions, how often do we assume the worst about others? It’s easy to jump to negative conclusions, especially when we feel slighted or misunderstood. However, there’s a powerful concept championed by Brené Brown and supported by various research studies that can transform our relationships and foster a more inclusive and connected community….
Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that has intrigued humanity for centuries. One of the most influential theories that provide a comprehensive framework to understand love’s various dimensions is Robert Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love. Introduced in the late 1980s, this theory posits that love can be understood through three core components: intimacy, passion,…
Are those of us experiencing social anxiety happier alone? It would be easy to assume that someone experiencing social anxiety is happier alone than with other people. After all, feeling socially anxious means fearing social situations and, to avoid potential rejection, criticism and ridicule, we tend to avoid social interactions. This belief can fuel our…
As we welcome in the beginning of Summer (and hopefully some sun! 🌞), I can’t help but awe at the natural flow of season to season – seriously, this happens every 3 months for me, maybe it’s the same for you too? In that state of awe, I often find myself reflecting on the past few months, and…
When you experience social anxiety, social gatherings can seem endlessly daunting, and it can often feel as though the safest option is to gracefully bow out and avoid such situations. I know this because I have done it countless times, and I know I probably will do it at least a few more times in…