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Earlier this year, I joined a kurinuki pottery workshop – a slow, meditative style of hand-building with clay – and it turned out to be one of the most quietly powerful group experiences I’ve had in a long time. I don’t often sign up for creative workshops. In the past, I’ve found them more socially…
New workshops for quieter children in West Cornwall this August Some children are just naturally quieter. They take their time. They feel things deeply. They might hang back and watch for a while before they join in. They might not say much in a group, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have ideas or things…
“Watching women’s football feels like watching a lower league.” “You know they’d likely lose to a boys’ team, right?” These were comments said to me – a woman – recently by men. Casually. With confidence. And it echoed something I’ve heard before. Something about it landed like a weight. Not because I play football, or…
Have you ever felt like you were the only person in the world who thinks the way you do? Like everyone else was given a guidebook for how to exist – how to talk, how to connect, how to just be – and somehow yours got lost in the post? There’s a particular kind of…
The words we hear, and the ones we quietly repeat to ourselves, often shape how we come to see who we are. Sometimes they help us make sense of things. They offer comfort, clarity, and connection. But other times, they can act like a script we didn’t ask for – one that holds us in…
There’s a particular kind of loneliness that doesn’t come from being alone. It can show up even in a room full of people, surrounded by small talk and surface smiles. It doesn’t always have words. It just sits there, quiet and familiar – a sense of being on the outside somehow, as if everyone else…
Sometimes, in relationships—whether friendships, family, work, or dating—something doesn’t sit right. Someone cancels plans last minute without apology. A friend jokes at your expense in a way that feels uncomfortable. A colleague constantly interrupts you in meetings. When you express discomfort, the response might be: “That’s just how people are.” “Everyone does it.” “You’re overthinking…
In every space we create at Quiet Connections – in a room together, online, or in moments shared in passing – we’re making a quiet promise to one another. A promise that says: you are seen, you are respected, you belong here. Each of us arrives with a different story, a different way of being….
Sometimes, a new connection arrives unexpectedly – a friendship or relationship that feels suddenly deep and full of promise. You find yourself sharing parts of yourself sooner than usual, feeling seen and important in someone else’s world. There’s warmth, attentiveness, maybe even a sense of consistency and care that feels grounding. It might feel like…
In this personal reflection for Pride month, Ellen shares her experience of finding quieter ways to celebrate Pride. I love what Pride stands for – visibility, celebration, community – but the reality of big, loud events has never been my thing. As a sensitive person, I find large groups overwhelming. I prefer to blend into…
It’s Volunteer’s Week – a time to recognise and celebrate the contributions of volunteers around the UK. At Quiet Connections, we simply couldn’t do what we do without our volunteers. We’re so grateful to everyone who gives their time and energy to help create safer, more compassionate spaces for people who feel introverted, sensitive, and…
We long for gentle relationships. To feel safe and seen with others, and to offer that same safety in return. Whether it’s a partner, a friend, or a colleague, we hope for connection that feels kind, consistent, and nourishing. But even when that desire is strong, we might still find ourselves showing up in a…