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Social and Emotional Intelligence
We long for gentle relationships. To feel safe and seen with others, and to offer that same safety in return. Whether it’s a partner, a friend, or a colleague, we hope for connection that feels kind, consistent, and nourishing. But even when that desire is strong, we might still find ourselves showing up in a…
When we’re faced with moments of tension or conflict, it can feel overwhelming—especially for us quieter folk. We might worry about upsetting someone or being misunderstood. But difficult conversations don’t always have to feel like a battle. With the right language, we can approach these moments with a sense of calm, curiosity, and connection. This…
In the world of leadership, extraversion often appears to hold the winning cards. Charismatic speeches, high-energy meetings, and an outwardly assertive presence seem to dominate the narrative of what it means to be a successful leader. However, Kim Cameron’s book “Positively Energizing Leadership” sheds light on a different, equally powerful path—one that introverted individuals might…
There is a version of wellbeing advice that is essentially: think positive, feel better. It is not particularly useful, and most people who have experienced anxiety or isolation know that well. Positive thinking on its own is not a strategy. But there is something in the research worth taking more seriously than the self-help shorthand…
Have you felt like you don’t matter? I wonder how many of do. I, for one, spent years feeling this way. Like it doesn’t matter if I’m at that event, with those people, or if I even exist. Who will notice? Who will be affected? Reduced feelings of ‘mattering’ have been found to contribute to loneliness…
What if you knew that the way you see the world isn’t the same as reality? Training as an NLP Practitioner, one of the very first things I learned is that our thoughts aren’t reality. It turns out that we respond to our own internal representation of the world -a model we’ve created in our minds-…