“Everyone Does It” – Just Because It’s ‘Normal’ Doesn’t Mean It’s Fair

“Everyone Does It” – Just Because It’s ‘Normal’ Doesn’t Mean It’s Fair

Sometimes, in relationships—whether friendships, family, work, or dating—something doesn’t sit right. Someone cancels plans last minute without apology. A friend jokes at your expense in a way that feels uncomfortable. A colleague constantly interrupts you in meetings. When you express discomfort, the response might be: “That’s just how people are.” “Everyone does it.” “You’re overthinking…

When Closeness Feels Intense – and then Quietly Slips Away

When Closeness Feels Intense – and then Quietly Slips Away

Sometimes, a new connection arrives unexpectedly – a friendship or relationship that feels suddenly deep and full of promise. You find yourself sharing parts of yourself sooner than usual, feeling seen and important in someone else’s world. There’s warmth, attentiveness, maybe even a sense of consistency and care that feels grounding. It might feel like…