Join our fortnightly Meet Ups in Cubert, near Newquay from 1st October.
Connect with likeminded quieteers at St Cubert’s Church every other Thursday from 1:30pm to 3:30pm.
This Meet Up is designed to help you make meaningful connections with likeminded people in a calm and gentle way that feels authentic to your true quiet self.
Whether you’re chatting and sharing stories with your fellow quieteers, enjoying a craft or wellbeing activity, or simply relaxing with a good book in the company of others, this is a safe space where your quiet voice matters - and where you can feel part of a community that truly gets you.
Although we meet in a church, this isn’t a religious group and there is no faith element to the Meet Up. It’s one of our usual Quiet Connections Meet Ups.
We can’t wait to welcome you.
Your Newquay Meet Up leaders
We're here to greet you, guide the event and lead the optional activities, as well as answer any questions or concerns that you might have.
Click our photos below to see our stories.

Wendy

Kath

Sue

Volunteer
Connector
Wendy
I am a natural introvert and like nothing better than a quiet time to myself, or sharing that time with other people who like to be quiet. When Quiet Connections came to our church for the HushFest exhibition, it felt like just the right thing to be happening in that peaceful and embracing space.
Having time to be with others in this way, with thoughtful conversation and perhaps some creative activity, feels like a very natural and nourishing thing to offer. I’m looking forward to welcoming others to this Meet-up place of peace where there is no pressure to be other than who we really are.
Connector
Kath
I have always been quiet and sensitive, and there have been times when social situations have felt difficult. I know how much difference it can make when you meet people who have similar experiences.
I’m looking forward to helping create a welcoming community at St Cubert’s where people can talk, be quiet , join in with something or simply spend time alongside other people.
Connector
Sue
I enjoy helping people feel welcome, safe and accepted. I am a caring and empathetic person who is good at listening and understanding how others may be feeling. I believe that everyone deserves a calm space where they can simply be themselves without pressure or judgement.
At our Meet Ups, I hope to create a peaceful, friendly and safe environment for everyone who visits.
Become a Quiet Connector with us
Volunteer
Our weekly Meet Ups gently connect quieteers like us in a safe, relaxing space where it’s okay to talk and it’s okay to be quiet too. Here, you can flourish in your life and career as your true quiet self – and help others do the same.
Find out more about how you can get involved at www.quietconnections.co.uk/quiet-connectors
What to Expect
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A relaxed, welcoming environment
Our venues are calm and quiet spaces with plenty of room to spread out. We always keep our group small too, to help you feel welcomed.
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It’s okay to talk and it’s okay to be quiet too
We understand that you may prefer to ease into conversation gradually, or that some days you might like to sit quietly with a good book whilst simply in the company of others. We welcome both quietude and chatter.
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You can go at your own pace
Our intention is to help you connect with others, but there’s absolutely no pressure to participate or set any big goals. You’re invited to do what feels right for you.
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Optional activities
Every week we bring along materials for casual, optional activities for you to participate in if you wish, from creative journaling to painting to crochet. You’re also welcome to bring your own creative project or a book to read.
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Conversation starters on the tables
We know that getting to know new people can be challenging, so we’ve done the tricky part for you and provided some interesting, positive questions that you can ask your fellow quieteers.
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Tea, coffee, hot chocolate and biscuits…
Because you can’t have a meeting without them, right?
What Quieteers are Saying
“I have always struggled with making friends, not feeling as worthy as others around me and overthinking situations that stopped me from trying. At times this made me feel lonely and stuck. After slow and determined steps to push my boundaries, I realised that there is nothing wrong with who I am. Being surrounded by fellow Quieteers has made me feel safe, heard, helped me open up and shift my focus from the fears to how I can be me and lift others at the same time. Quiet people are amazing and given safe spaces and the right circumstances, they have plenty to talk about.”
- Erzsebet, Cornwall
“I used to be very shy and not able to hold conversations, but I enjoy being with likeminded people at the Meet Ups. It’s a lovely group and I can relate to them so I feel more able to open up and join in with conversations. I’m comfortable being with other quieteers knowing they understand if I feel socially anxious. The best thing in every Meet Up is there’s no pressure to talk, you can chat when you feel comfortable. There are optional activities available for everyone to do at the Meet Up but there’s no pressure to join. I can just simply sit and watch others if I want to, though I love to use the colouring sheets or drawing paper while listening and chatting with others. After every session, I have a positive feeling that helps me feel more confident with making new connections inside and outside the Meet Ups.”
Hannah, Cornwall
Where to Find Us
St Cubert’s Church
1 Churchtown, Cubert, Newquay, TR8 5EZ
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Getting here
By car: There is a parking field close to the church.
By bus: The nearest bus stop is Holywell Road, around a four-minute walk away.
Accessibility
St Cubert’s Church is not currently wheelchair accessible. There are steps at the entrance and between some areas inside the church.
The nearest accessible toilet is across the road next to the parking field.
If you have any questions about access, you’re welcome to email newquay@quietconnections.co.uk.
How to Join a Meet Up in Cubert
You don’t have to register to come along - it’s okay to simply turn up on the day. However, on the first time that you’re joining us, if you know in advance that you’re going to come along it would be really helpful if you could sign up using our booking form below. This means we can say hello and answer any of your questions before you come along, we can easily contact you if there are any changes to the schedule, and we can get feedback from you now and again to help us improve. It’s your choice though. Either way, we are very much looking forward to meeting you and welcoming you into the group.
When we're meeting this Autumn
We gather every other Thursday. If you’re looking ahead past these dates, we'll be continuing this fortnightly routine, so you can always plan your visit at your own pace.
We look forward to welcoming you.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is there any cost involved?
Our regular Quiet Connections Meet Ups are free to attend. Refreshments and any activities we provide at the Meet Up are free too, but we welcome your donations to keep this Meet Up running.
Who is leading the Meet Up?
The Cubert Meet Ups are led by the team pictured above, who will be there to greet you.
Do I need to book a Meet Up space in advance?
No. You’re very welcome to simply turn up.
If you know in advance that you’re coming for the first time, we’d appreciate you filling in the sign-up form above. It gives us a chance to say hello beforehand, answer any questions and contact you if anything changes.
Is this a religious group?
No. St Cubert's Church is our venue, but the Meet Up itself isn’t religious and there is no faith element.
It’s a regular Quiet Connections Meet Up for people who identify with being quiet, introverted, shy, highly sensitive or experiencing social anxiety. You don’t need to have any connection with the church to come along.
What is the feel of the group and space like?
Our Meet Up is a quiet and welcoming space, where we aim to create an ambience that feels both calm and re-energising. We’ll often have uplifting or relaxing music playing quietly in the background. Our facilitators focus on nurturing conversations and participation that has a collective positive upwards spiral e.g. gratitude, small comfort zone stretch wins, things that bring us joy, what we’re learning etc. And there is usually a gentle mix of chatter and quieter moments.
Is St Cubert's Church wheelchair accessible?
Unfortunately, no. Because St Cubert's is a historic building, there are steps at the entrance and between some areas inside the church.
The nearest accessible toilet is across the road next to the parking field. If you'd like to talk through access before coming, please email newquay@quietconnections.co.uk.
Is there *really* no expectation or pressure to join in and participate? Can I *really* go at my own pace?
We really do remove the pressure - because we’ve been there too. As quiet facilitators, we like to think that we’ve found a good balance between being attentive to the group and giving you your own space. If we sense you’re in any difficulty, we will gently make sure that you’re okay. But otherwise we will allow you to join in as much or as little as you like.
Am I able to step out of the room for a quiet moment to myself if I need it?
Yes. We’ll always encourage you to give yourself what you need. If at any point you feel you need to step away, you are welcome to go and make yourself a cuppa or leave for a break before rejoining the group. Our facilitators will be mindful to offer that space and a check-in chat, if needed.
What kinds of activities do you run at this Meet Up?
There are usually simple optional activities available alongside conversation, such as colouring or other creative activities. You’re also welcome to bring something of your own to do.
Taking part is always optional. It’s equally okay to come for a cuppa, conversation or simply to spend some time around other people.
Can I bring a friend?
Yes. You’re very welcome to come with someone you know, particularly if that makes your first visit feel easier.
Can I try other locations or should I always go to the Cubert Meet Up?
You’re welcome to try Meet Ups in multiple locations. There’s no obligation to always go to the same one, but you’re more likely to make friends and genuine connections if you go to the same Meet Up more than once.
Can I leave before the end?
Yes. The Meet Up runs from 1:30pm to 3:30pm, but there’s no expectation to stay for the full two hours. You can arrive or leave at a time that works for you.
Do I have to come every fortnight?
No. You can come as often as works for you. Some people come to their regular Meet Up whenever it runs, while others join us less often.
Where can I park?
There is a parking field close to St Cubert's Church, across the road from the church.
How can I get there without driving?
The nearest bus stop is Holywell Road, around a four-minute walk from St Cubert's Church.
