Join our Monthly Meet Ups in Helston

Connect with likeminded quieteers at The Old Cattle Marketevery 4th Tuesday of the month from 1.00pm to 3.00pm.

This monthly group is designed to help you make meaningful connections with likeminded people in a calm and gentle way that feels authentic to your true quiet self.

Whether you’re chatting and sharing stories with your fellow quieteers, enjoying a craft or wellbeing activity, or simply relaxing with a good book in the company of others, this is a safe space where your quiet voice matters - and where you can feel part of a community that truly gets you.

We can’t wait to welcome you.

Your Helston Meet Ups leaders

We're here to greet you, guide the event and lead the optional activities, as well as answer any questions or concerns that you might have.

Click our photos below to see our stories.

What to Expect

A relaxed, welcoming environment

We’ve chosen The Old Cattle Market because it’s an open and inviting space in a lovely part of Helston. We always keep our group small too, to help you feel welcomed.

It’s okay to talk and it’s okay to be quiet too

We understand that you may prefer to ease into conversation gradually, or that some days you might like to sit quietly with a good book whilst simply in the company of others. We welcome both quietude and chatter.

You can go at your own pace

Our intention is to help you connect with others, but there’s absolutely no pressure to participate or set any big goals. You’re invited to do what feels right for you.

Optional activities

Every session we bring along materials for casual, optional activities for you to participate in if you wish, from creative journaling to painting to crochet. You’re also welcome to bring your own creative project or a book to read. 

Conversation starters on the tables

We know that getting to know new people can be challenging, so we’ve done the tricky part for you and provided some interesting, positive questions that you can ask your fellow quieteers.

Tea, coffee, hot chocolate and biscuits…

Because you can’t have a meeting without them, right? 

What Quieteers are Saying

“I’ve been to quite a lot of the Meet Ups in Helston. I’ve found them really helpful to bring quiet people like me together and grow some gentle connections. I feel very relaxed and comfortable every time I join the Meet Ups. It's pressure-free and I’m encouraged to do whatever I need to, just sitting without saying anything is okay and I really enjoy listening to others’ talking and sharing about being quiet. I am now more confident since attending the first time and I feel more accepting of myself.”

Jacqui, Helston

“I was visiting from London and decided to join the quiet meetup in Helston. I found the meetup very welcoming, everyone is very friendly and supportive, there are lovely activities to engage in if you need to be in your own space, and I had some wonderful conversations with the facilitators and participants. I definitely got a lot out of it and found it a perfect balance to connect with others, i would attend again if I am in the area.”

Shaun, London

Where to Find Us

The Old Cattle Market

Porthleven Rd, Helston TR13 0SR

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Getting here

  • By car: There are a few spaces outside The Old Cattle Market itself, and more at the Pay & Display car park immediately adjacent, next to the boating lake. For free parking, The Fairground Car Park is just over the other side of the lake. 
  • By train: There is no access to Helston via train.
  • By bus: The Old Cattle Market is serviced by the following bus routes: 2/2a/2b, 38, 39/938, 534, 535, 537, 538 & 582.

If you would like any more detailed information about getting to our Helston Meet Ups we’d be very happy to send this to you in an email. Just contact us at helston@quietconnections.co.uk.

How to Join a Helston Meet Up

You don’t have to register to come along - it’s okay to simply turn up on the day. However, on the first time that you’re joining us, if you know in advance that you’re going to come along it would be really helpful if you could sign up using our booking form below. This means we can say hello and answer any of your questions before you come along, we can easily contact you if there are any changes to the schedule, and we can get feedback from you now and again to help us improve. It’s your choice though. Either way, we are very much looking forward to meeting you and welcoming you into the group. 

Frequently Asked Questions

Whilst there might be other people in the building, we've hired a space just for our use between 1pm and 3pm, so it's only us quieteers in the area.

The Helston Meet Ups are led by Anne & Leanna (see their photos toward the top of this page). 

No, all of our Meet Ups are free to attend. We’re a Community Interest Company so funding comes from The National Lottery Community Fund. All refreshments including water, teas, coffees, hot chocolate and biscuits are provided free of charge too - although you’re very welcome to bring along your own drink if you prefer, or additional treats to share with the group. 

You don’t have to book - it’s ok to just turn up on the day. However, on the first time that you’re joining us, if you know in advance that you’re going to come along it would be really helpful if you could sign up using our booking form below. This means we can say 'hi' and answer any of your questions before you come along, we can easily contact you if there are any changes to the schedule, and we can get feedback from you now and again to help us improve.

On average, our Helston Meet Up typically has around 6 or 7 people in attendance each week.

The Old Cattle Market is an open and inviting space, where we aim to create an ambience that feels both calm and re-energising. We’ll often have uplifting or relaxing music playing quietly in the background. Our facilitators focus on nurturing conversations and participation that has a collective positive upwards spiral e.g. gratitude, small comfort zone stretch wins, things that bring us joy, what we’re learning etc. And there is usually a gentle mix of chatter and quieter moments.

The space is fully accessible, there are a few steps but there's also a ramp available.

We really do remove the pressure - because we’ve been there too. As quiet facilitators, we like to think that we’ve found a good balance between being attentive to the group and giving you your own space. If we sense you’re in any difficulty, we will gently make sure that you’re okay. But otherwise we will allow you to join in as much or as little as you like. 

Yes. We’ll always encourage you to give yourself what you need. If at any point you feel you need to step away, you are welcome to go and make yourself a cuppa or leave for a break before re-joining the group. Our facilitators will be mindful to offer that space and a check-in chat, if needed.

All sorts! We bring along materials for optional casual activities that’ll spark creativity, start conversations and boost your wellbeing. This might be colouring, painting, crocheting, journaling and more.

Absolutely. We recognise this might be helpful as you’re settling in and getting to know the other group members.

Yes, we’d be happy to help with that. Just send us a message at helston@quietconnections.co.uk and we’ll arrange this for you. 

You’re welcome to try Meet Ups in multiple locations. There’s no obligation to always go to the same one, but you’re more likely to make friends and genuine connections if you go to the same Meet Up more than once.

Whilst many do choose to attend monthly, we also have valuable members within the community who only attend as and when they can.

It’s two hours in length - on the 4th Tuesday of every month from 1pm to 3pm.

We’ve included parking instructions above but feel free to email us on helston@quietconnections.co.uk if you’d like some more detailed information on this.

We’ve included a little about bus travel above but please email us on helston@quietconnections.co.uk if you’d like some more detailed information about how to get here.

We’re always pleased to hear from lovely volunteers in our local community. If you think you might like to help us run a Meet Up or get involved with Quiet Connections in another way, please email hello@quietconnections.co.uk and we’ll be in touch.