Join our Weekly Meet Ups in Hayle
We are currently exploring re-starting the Meet Ups in the Hayle area.
- If you can help with a venue, funding or volunteering at the Meet Up, please reach out.
- If you'd like to stay updated about our progress, please register for updates using the form below.
Join the Interest Call on Wednesday 21st January 2026 at 12:30pm. Add to your google calendar here:
Hayle Meet Ups are rebooting... please reach out if you'd like to help.
What to Expect
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A relaxed, welcoming environment
We’ve chosen Philip Smith Annexe in Hayle Day Care Centre because it’s a calm and quiet space. It looks out onto the river and we love watching the birds. We always keep our group small too, to help you feel welcomed.
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It’s okay to talk and it’s okay to be quiet too
We understand that you may prefer to ease into conversation gradually, or that some days you might like to sit quietly with a good book whilst simply in the company of others. We welcome both quietude and chatter.
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You can go at your own pace
Our intention is to help you connect with others, but there’s absolutely no pressure to participate or set any big goals. You’re invited to do what feels right for you.
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Optional activities
Every week we bring along materials for casual, optional activities for you to participate in if you wish, from creative journaling to painting to crochet. You’re also welcome to bring your own creative project or a book to read.
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Conversation starters on the tables
We know that getting to know new people can be challenging, so we’ve done the tricky part for you and provided some interesting, positive questions that you can ask your fellow quieteers.
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Tea, coffee, hot chocolate and biscuits…
Because you can’t have a meeting without them, right?
What Quieteers are Saying
“I’ve really enjoyed the Meet Ups. I love the space and people. I feel safe and comfortable to chat along with or happily sit in silence and enjoy my own quiet space without fear of being judged.”
- Colin, Hayle
“I used to be very shy and not able to hold conversations, but I enjoy being with likeminded people at the Meet Ups. It’s a lovely group and I can relate to them so I feel more able to open up and join in with conversations. I’m comfortable being with other quieteers knowing they understand if I feel socially anxious. The best thing in every Meet Up is there’s no pressure to talk, you can chat when you feel comfortable. There are optional activities available for everyone to do at the Meet Up but there’s no pressure to join. I can just simply sit and watch others if I want to, though I love to use the colouring sheets or drawing paper while listening and chatting with others. After every session, I have a positive feeling that helps me feel more confident with making new connections inside and outside the Meet Ups.”
Hannah, Hayle
Where to Find Us
TBC
Getting here
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If you would like any more detailed information about getting to our Hayle Meet Ups we’d be very happy to send this to you in an email. Just contact us on meetups@quietconnections.co.uk.
How to Join a Hayle Meet Up
You don’t have to register to come along - it’s okay to simply turn up on the day. However, on the first time that you’re joining us, if you know in advance that you’re going to come along it would be really helpful if you could sign up using our booking form below. This means we can say hello and answer any of your questions before you come along, we can easily contact you if there are any changes to the schedule, and we can get feedback from you now and again to help us improve. It’s your choice though. Either way, we are very much looking forward to meeting you and welcoming you into the group.
Frequently Asked Questions
Will the Day Care Centre be open to the general public during the Meet Up, or is it just quieteers?
The whole space in the Annexe is ours between 4.00pm and 6.00pm, so it's only us quieteers in the room.
Who is leading the Meet Up?
The Hayle Meet Ups are led by Michele (see her photo above).
Is there any cost involved?
No, all of our Meet Ups are free to attend. We’re a Community Interest Company so funding comes from The National Lottery Community Fund. All refreshments including water, teas, coffees, hot chocolate and biscuits are provided free of charge too - although you’re very welcome to bring along your own drink if you prefer, or additional treats to share with the group.
Do I need to book a Meet Up space in advance?
You don’t have to book - it’s ok to just turn up on the day. However, on the first time that you’re joining us, if you know in advance that you’re going to come along it would be really helpful if you could sign up using our booking form below. This means we can say hi and answer any of your questions before you come along, we can easily contact you if there are any changes to the schedule, and we can get feedback from you now and again to help us improve.
How many people are usually at a Meet Up?
On average, our Hayle Meet Up typically has around 4 or 5 people in attendance each week.
What is the feel of the group and space like?
The Philip Smith Annexe is a quiet space, where we aim to create an ambience that feels both calm and re-energising. We’ll often have uplifting or relaxing music playing quietly in the background. Our facilitators focus on nurturing conversations and participation that has a collective positive upwards spiral e.g. gratitude, small comfort zone stretch wins, things that bring us joy, what we’re learning etc. And there is usually a gentle mix of chatter and quieter moments.
Are there any stairs to get to the Meet Up room?
No. The space we use is on the ground floor and fully accessible with a ramp at the entrance.
Is there *really* no expectation or pressure to join in and participate? Can I *really* go at my own pace?
We really do remove the pressure - because we’ve been there too. As quiet facilitators, we like to think that we’ve found a good balance between being attentive to the group and giving you your own space. If we sense you’re in any difficulty, we will gently make sure that you’re okay. But otherwise we will allow you to join in as much or as little as you like.
Am I able to step out of the room for a quiet moment to myself if I need it?
Yes. We’ll always encourage you to give yourself what you need. If at any point you feel you need to step away, you are welcome to go and make yourself a cuppa or leave for a break before rejoining the group. Our facilitators will be mindful to offer that space and a check-in chat, if needed.
What kinds of activities do you run at this Meet Up?
All sorts! We bring along materials for optional casual activities that’ll spark creativity, start conversations and boost your wellbeing. This might be colouring, painting, crocheting, journaling and more.
Can I bring a friend?
Absolutely. We recognise this might be helpful as you’re settling in and getting to know the other group members.
Can you greet me outside of the Day Care Centre before I come in?
Yes, we’d be happy to help with that. Just send Michele a message at michele@quietconnections.co.uk and she’ll arrange this for you.
Can I try other locations or should I always go to the Hayle Meet Up?
You’re welcome to try Meet Ups in multiple locations. There’s no obligation to always go to the same one, but you’re more likely to make friends and genuine connections if you go to the same Meet Up more than once.
Is it mandatory to come along every week?
Whilst many do choose to attend weekly, we also have valuable members within the community who only attend as and when they can.
How long is this Meet Up?
It’s two hours in length (every Tuesday from 4.00pm to 6.00pm).
Where should I park?
We’ve included parking instructions above but feel free to email Michele on michele@quietconnections if you’d like some more detailed information on this.
How will I get there if I don’t drive?
We’ve included travel and public transport information above but please email Michele on michele@quietconnections if you’d like some more detailed information about how to get here.
I’m interested in volunteering as a group leader. How can I get involved?
We’re always pleased to hear from lovely volunteers in our local community. If you think you might like to help us run a Meet Up or get involved with Quiet Connections in another way, please contact Hayley & Stacie on hello@quietconnections.co.uk and they’ll be in touch.

